be you without asking permission…

Hey there everyone. So if you didn’t know I am back in Vegas. I saw this quote that said if you want to be successful stop asking for permission. I am going to apply that to the journey of happiness. Every day is a choice on whether or not you are going to be happy. Just because something happens doesn’t mean that there is no way of being happy. You can chose to sit and dwell or you can talk and then let it go. Don’t ask permission to be yourself and to be happy. I know that is so much easier said than done but I am beyond tired of being miserable.
What makes you, you? What makes you happy? What are you passionate about??? A few thoughts from me. I want the next thirty years to be 100% better than the first thirty years. I am passionate about music, writing and taking pictures. Life is entirely too short to settle. I want to find an entry level job working on the things that make me happy. What makes me happy??? The little things remembering something I said and surprising me or planning a date around it. It doesn’t cost a lot of money. You would be amazed to know how many women feel exactly the same way. They just want quality time with the person that they are with when it is just them.
Don’t ask permission to be yourself!!!! Everyone has quirks and flaws and that is what makes us all unique and individual. I am not saying that we don’t need to work on ourselves we do. I am saying if those things aren’t hurting others then just be you. This world is full off differing opinions and perspectives if there is a disagreement; are you willing to compromise and change?? If the answer is no then it is time to end that relationship. Be willing to be open minded but also be willing to stand your ground so that you don’t lose who you are.
We often lose who we are when we are busy listening to whatever everyone else wants us to be. I am guilty of this myself but now I am at a point where it doesn’t matter what others think I just want to be me and be happy. Why are we so concerned about what the neighbor is doing??? Who cares! If they aren’t hurting anyone or anything give them space and let them have their own life. All anyone wants in this life is to be happy . Lets give others that.So my closing thoughts are
If you truly just want to be happy. just do it. Do it unapologetically. Do it without asking permission.
It is a matter of perspective — you can take a bad moment and chose to not let it effect the rest of your day.
BE HAPPY ON PURPOSE!
ITS YOUR LIFE! YOU DON’T HAVE TO ASK FOR PERMISSION!
FIND THE THING THAT YOU ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT AND CHASE IT!
LET YOUR NEIGHBOR LIVE THEIR LIFE.
MOST OF ALL JUST BE YOURSELF.

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