Be a friend!

Hey there everyone! Hope that you are doing well lately I have been thinking about how people interact with each other and I hope that I can be a light in this world and help to change it. Here are my thoughts..

Everyone in this world has gifts and abilities. We all have something different to offer each other. Different perspectives and different ways of relating to each other.
I know that for me the first impression can be the hardest for me. They are hard because I don’t always initially feel safe being open and be me. So I will sit and there and usually be quiet just watching all that is going on around me. Once I feel safe or warm up to the situation I will slowly and still cautiously start to open up and begin interacting.
There are other times that within minutes I am willing to be me and feel free and we have a great time. I open up and relate with no fear of what they will say or do.
We need to be careful that when we interact with each other that we don’t extinguish any flame that is within them. You never know when that flame is going to erupt into a fire…That fire could be whatever they have passion for. Creative ideas. Their ability to feel free to be themselves when they are with you.
The world is full of all kinds of people and we must use tact and charisma.
I will be the first to admit that it isn’t always easy to set the problems of today or worries of today to the side and just sit and listen. Also important is that if we don’t set those things aside we may come across negative and unhappy but all that is going on is you have  a heavy heart. Learn to let go!!! You would be surprised by how many times that is all that is needed is for someone to sit and listen as someone vents! Everyone has to have someway to let it go so that it isn’t bottled up inside waiting to erupt when least expected! Not all venting is negative it may come across that way at first but if you allow someone to talk out how they are feeling that they find the answer just by listening to themselves tell the story of what is going on.

BE A FRIEND!!! BE AN EAR!!!!

If they ask for advice then offer it. Don’t assume that because they are talking to you that they want you to fix them. They want to be loved, accepted and I think most importantly heard. There are a lot of times where things are decided for us or things in the past and they just think that there voice and opinion isn’t important.

BE KIND TO ONE ANOTHER!!!! FUEL THE FIRE OF THEIR PASSIONS!! HELP FUEL THEIR DREAMS!!!

MOST IMPORTANTLY
BE A HAPPY POSITIVE INFLUENCE ON THEIR LIVES!!!!

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